Friday 31 March 2017

Revitalizing your relationships

Relationships are beautiful but not perfect. It could be rosy today and the other way round tomorrow.
Don't feel threatened when your relationship feels live less. All you might just need to do is to try something new and adventurous.

There are several ways in which you can revitalize your relationship. Here are some ways with pictures:



There's a popular saying that says "family that prays together stays together". Find time to pray together, it helps. Sometimes, all you need is to pray to the supernatural one.

Pray together to stay together




How often do you have enough time to spend together? When you're together what are the things you do? Have you tried doing laundry together? Washing your clothes together. If you've not tried it before, I will advice you to try it.
Doing laundry together



Have you ever tried going on trips together? When was the last time you actually traveled together.
Take time to go out especially to tourist centers. You can also visit the beach together or any recreational center close to you.



Going on trips together, taking memorable pics together



When was the last time you went to see a movie together at the cinema? Take each other out and see a movie. Grab popcorn and drink and watch that new movie together.

Going to the Cinema house.

Have you tried cooking together? Cook romantic dinner together. Cook your favorite meals together. If you don't know how to cook, that's not a problem, you can learn. Teach your partner how to cook.
Cooking romantic dinners together


Sharing of gifts shows and depicts love. Sharing gifts with your partner shows that you love them, you cherish them, you think about them always. You don't need to be a millionaire to be able to buy gift. Look that thing she or he cherish a lot and get it.


Sharing gifts




How often do you make love? What are your excuses? Love making is one of the important way of revitalizing your relationship. It is a spice that spices a relationship
Love making.





When was the last time you went on a date? Was it the time you started you relationship? Fix a date with your partner and take yourself out on a romantic date.

Going out on date



There are many others by which you can revitalize your relationship. You can take classes together, constantly reassure your partner that you love her, educating one and other.

As any of the aforementioned ways helped you relationship, if yes, then don't hesitate to tell us.
You can also educate us on how to revitalize our relationships.
Feel free to comment, your comments are always appreciated.

Monday 27 March 2017

Skip assuming and walk up to her

Do you love a lady, then walk up to her and express your feelings.
Don't be intimidated by her beauty or her financial status.
Don't assume she's in a relationship. Confirm and be sure rather than assuming.
Many beautiful ladies are not in any relationship because guys assumed they're engaged. They assume they're too beautiful to be single.
True life story: A beautiful lady was asked why she married a short ugly man. Guess what her reply was. She said he was the first guy and the only guy that had boldness to walk up to her and ask her out. She said she waited all this years for a man just to approach her. Many of her male friends assume she was engaged. Since she was getting older, she has to settle with him.


Skip assuming. Just walk up to her






Have you been intimidated at anytime?
Did you assume? Where your assumptions right or wrong?
Share your story if you've being intimidated or you assumed and your assumptions were wrong.
Let others learn from you, you might not know who's reading.
Feel free to comments and ask questions.

Saturday 25 March 2017

No boss in relationship

Relationship should not consist of a dictator and a subject, it should be mutual.
I'm not a feminist but I advocate for equality or equal rights in relationships. Nobody should lord over nobody. Submission should not be by force, it should a voluntary act.
Talking about submission, the both parties should be submissive to one another. When one is high, the other party should be low.
Decisions should be taken altogether. For me, it's not appropriate for one party to have the final say because of gender or financial or age positions.
Cherish, appreciate and respect your partner because he or she is a human like you and he or she loves you and wants the best for you.





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Communication in relationship

Communication, I tell people is very crucial and vital in relationships. Communication in relationship is equally important as love is in a relationship.
Whenever people come to me about misunderstanding in their relationship, the first question in I do ask is that "Have you talked over it with your partner", "What did your partner say, what's his or her views about the matter"?
The interesting part is that love and trust is hinge on communication. The more you communicate with your partner, the more you trust and love your partner.
Openness is crucial when communicating with your partner. I advise lovers that they should be truthful in dealing with their partner because of raining days and most especially because of love, love is not deceitful.
Communication has solve a lot of problems in relationship whereas lack of communication has irreparably destroyed a lot of relationship.
Your partner acted in a strange and funny way, don't just jump into unreasonable conclusions, give him or her a benefit of doubt and approach him or her about the strange and funny attitude.
Don't be scared to open up even though you might be misunderstood. Enjoy quality time together communicating especially verbally.




Feel free to comment.
How has communicating verbally helped your relationship?
Do you think communication in relationship is equally important as love?